話咁快BB已經讀Grade 1，返三歲班就像昨日嘅事。今年好可惜我唔能夠親自送她入課室，因為那朝早遲了下班，趕不及送她上學，當我去到學校時她已經在課室裡。
讀Grade 1絕對係一個新的里程碑，可以話讀書生涯正式開始。她開始接觸更多新知識新事物，感謝天父BB好開心返學去。這幾天她剛學了一啲法文，她很興奮，返到屋企就第一件事話俾我知一啲新學嘅法文生字，雖然我唔知佢講得啱唔啱，但見到她對學習新事物嘅雀躍，我也感到很安慰。
踏入這個新里程碑同時，BB長大了不少，她獨立多了。在八月份期間，她參加了教會嘅day camp，在最後一天嘅活動係去摘果同游水。她是參加者之中，年紀最少的一個，而且她從未自己去做這些活動（一响都有我地陪伴）。摘果我都唔擔心，但游水...佢自己識唔識得處理更衣清潔等事情？佢唔識游水會唔會發生意外？心裡是擔心，但也要學習let go，這次係一個嘅機會讓她成長，讓她唔依賴父母。感謝神，她真的做到了，完完整整平平安安的回來。
經此一事，我更體會到作為媽媽唔係淨係要去保護自己嘅女兒，更要幫助她們學習獨立處事，才可面對困難，面對挑戰。所以我便開始訓練她自己洗澡。開始之時我解釋清楚俾佢知道媽媽嘅用意，唔想佢有錯覺以為媽媽唔想再幫佢，又或者以為媽媽偏心幫弟弟而唔幫佢，又或誤以為媽媽想慳番啲時間；要讓佢知道媽媽仍是愛佢，媽媽只不過係幫她獨立，萬一媽媽不在她身邊，她仍可以自處，就好似去day camp時一樣。她很接受，慢慢的學習。在開學後的第三晚，她自己去沖涼，我本想看一看她怎樣，需唔需要幫忙。她這樣的回應我："No. I don't need help. Mom, no worry. I can do it all by myself as I did it last night."自那晚開始，她決意自己做，而且好proud of herself。我真的為此感恩。BB, Mommy is proud of you, too.
不單止噉，在同一晚令我好感動的是，囡囡嘅禱告。每一晚我地都會同佢讀經祈禱。以往多是我地開聲禱告，有時我邀請她開聲，她通常都拒絕。但有一次從老師嘅report card裡我知道她有在學校主動開聲祈禱，此後，我更多的邀請她，但大多數嘅情況下她都拒絕，藉口唔識。近一段日子我再多加的要求她，俾十秒時間佢去諗，通常唔使十秒佢就會開聲。不過佢要求用英文去祈禱，當然可以。
那一晚嘅禱告佢講咗好多嘢而且仲用好流暢嘅英文（平時佢講英文並未咁流暢）。最令我感動係，She prayed to God that she wanted to be a real Christian. 我從來未聽過佢講"real Christian"，我地亦都冇講過。我唔知道佢係唔係從VBS或者學校那裡學。但從我心裡我感到很恩惠，很意外。神啊求你應允她的禱告！Amen!
In her prayer, she asked God to help her understand Him and his Word more through reading the Bible. She asked God to help her to control herself and be good. She also prayed for 2 other kids from the day care to know and accept Jesus Christ. She prayed for Japan and China. She thanked God for her teachers and for the things that she learned that day. In her prayer, she also mentioned something about faith and also the bible characters that she learned that night. 從她嘅禱告裡我知道她明白那天晚上我地一起所讀嘅聖經。
不單止噉，在同一晚令我好感動的是，囡囡嘅禱告。每一晚我地都會同佢讀經祈禱。以往多是我地開聲禱告，有時我邀請她開聲，她通常都拒絕。但有一次從老師嘅report card裡我知道她有在學校主動開聲祈禱，此後，我更多的邀請她，但大多數嘅情況下她都拒絕，藉口唔識。近一段日子我再多加的要求她，俾十秒時間佢去諗，通常唔使十秒佢就會開聲。不過佢要求用英文去祈禱，當然可以。
那一晚嘅禱告佢講咗好多嘢而且仲用好流暢嘅英文（平時佢講英文並未咁流暢）。最令我感動係，She prayed to God that she wanted to be a real Christian. 我從來未聽過佢講"real Christian"，我地亦都冇講過。我唔知道佢係唔係從VBS或者學校那裡學。但從我心裡我感到很恩惠，很意外。神啊求你應允她的禱告！Amen!
In her prayer, she asked God to help her understand Him and his Word more through reading the Bible. She asked God to help her to control herself and be good. She also prayed for 2 other kids from the day care to know and accept Jesus Christ. She prayed for Japan and China. She thanked God for her teachers and for the things that she learned that day. In her prayer, she also mentioned something about faith and also the bible characters that she learned that night. 從她嘅禱告裡我知道她明白那天晚上我地一起所讀嘅聖經。
禱告完咗後，囡囡同我講，有時真的很難做好，我地要靠天父。我給了她一個big hug，而且我同佢講我好proud of her，and her prayer really impressed me.
這一晚唔單止見到她身量（獨立能力）嘅成長，更體會到她Spiritual方面嘅成長。
這一晚唔單止見到她身量（獨立能力）嘅成長，更體會到她Spiritual方面嘅成長。
天父啊求你應允這小女孩嘅禱告，幫助她認識你，在你話語及教導下紮根。幫助我有你嘅愛心與智慧去輔助她。
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